you would need to buy the differential from a manual car (stock or aftermarket diff) as well as new output shafts, bearings, etc to make it all work. This is true of the 3.7, 3.9, 4.08 and 4.3 - they are all designed to work with the manual transmission LSD, which is different from the automatic LSD
yes it reduces top speed - but you're driving a luxury SUV...so top speed isn't exactly high on the list of attributes in the first place

Seriously though, there are a bunch of gear oriented calculators online. If you plug in the weight, power, wheel/tire combo, gears, and ratios, it will show you what the top speed is on a per gear basis and in overdrive, for all the ring and pinion combos we offer.